Snoring doesn’t just interfere with the snorer’s sleep. When it comes to couples, one person’s snoring often means sleep trouble for two. And it isn’t only sleep that can suffer. Snoring can put great strain on relationships. A snoring problem often creates not only tiredness but also frustration and resentment between couples. It can interfere with sexual and emotional intimacy, and can push couples to sleep in separate bedrooms.
There are many good reasons to treat snoring, including restoring sleep quality, guarding against risks to health and improving your daytime functional efficiency, but protecting the happiness and intimacy of your relationship is another important reason to treat a snoring problem.
How can snoring cause so much trouble within a relationship? Snoring, a form of sleep-disordered breathing, interferes with sleep quality and sleep quantity, both for the person who snores, and, often, for the person who sleeps with a snorer. Poor quality and insufficient sleep interfere with our thinking skills and judgment. Lack of sleep can make us irritable and short-tempered. Poor sleep diminishes our ability to manage conflict well, increasing negative feelings and reducing our ability to empathize. Lack of sleep has been shown in scientific research to make couples feel less appreciative of each other, and to experience greater feelings of selfishness. Sound like a recipe for relationship difficulties? It is.
What’s more, the noise of the snoring itself can become a focal point of both frustration and shame within the dynamic of a couple’s relationship. The person who is kept awake, or who has to shuffle off to the spare bedroom in the middle of the nigh, may grow to feel resentful of his or her snoring partner. The snorer, meanwhile, often feels guilty, ashamed, and helpless about their noisy, disruptive sleep. These feelings can be a real source of irritation and isolation for even very loving couples.
It’s no surprise that snoring often sends couples to separate bedrooms in search of undisturbed rest. Some couples may find that sleeping apart suits them well, and doesn’t diminish their feelings of closeness. But many couples very much want to sleep together — but can’t, because of a snoring issue. Sleeping apart can interfere with intimacy – both sexual and emotional. Couples may find themselves having sex less often when they’re regularly sleeping apart. Partners also may miss the physical closeness of sleeping together, and the emotional bond that it confers for many people.
Estimates vary, but recent studies and surveys indicate that anywhere from 25 per cent to 40 per cent of couples regularly sleep in separate bedrooms.
It doesn’t need to be this way. Tending to a snoring problem can pave the way for couples to sleep peacefully — and quietly — together, and help to improve the way couples relate to one another during their waking day.
By doing the simplest of things, using a stop snoring mouthpiece, the problem is solved immediately and couples may find it easier to enjoy their life as it should be – sleeping close and unencumbered.
Tending to a snoring issue can lead to better sleep for both partners, as well as a more loving and harmonious relationship that includes them sleeping together, and not apart. Sleeping well with the person we love is the goal, and by treating snoring effectively, it can happen.
Take that simple step – try it. You’ll be amazed – but not so much as your partner will be.
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